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Hello all. I'm not really sure when I decided to post about this until a few minutes ago but if it can help one person, than it was worth it. I'm not a huge social media person other than maybe posting some pictures here and there, so for me, this is pretty personal. If you're not okay with the LGBTQ community, you may not want to continue but I'll leave that up to you. I'm sure some of you have been noticing that I have changed my name to Kaden. I will be getting it changed legally in the next few months. I've thought about hormones and everything that comes along with it and I think one day, that will be something for me in the future. It can get confusing with pronouns, what gender you identify with, etc. Now this is the part where I'm hoping some people may relate with. It's okay not to have all the answers right now. It's okay to not know whether you like men or women or both or whether you want to be a man or a woman. There's no simple answer for sexuality and in my opinion, gender either. I believe both are on a gray spectrum. Society today is becoming more accepting, don't get me wrong, but there's still plenty of people that only see in black and white and I know for some people, it's terrifying. None of us want to feel judged by others or feel we don't matter as much. Well, I'm here to tell you that the only thing that matters is that you're comfortable with yourself and happy with who you are. My therapist told me that 99% of people on this earth won't give a shit about who you are or what you do because they're thinking about themselves so you should do the same. Think about YOU. Be who you want to be. I've been struggling with this a lot lately but that's how I know once I do figure things out along the way, it'll make everything worth it. It's okay not to have all the answers, everything comes in time. What personally helps me is believing in something bigger than myself whether that be God, the Universe, Buddha, whoever or whatever your definition is of a higher power. It gives me comfort believing that everything happens for a reason and that if I'm struggling, I can call out for guidance and it brings me peace. It's okay if you don't believe in anything either, you do what works for you. Surround yourself with good friends and family that love you for your soul and not for your sexual preference or gender. To those whom are godly, the God I know loves everyone and you can find comfort in that. You will be happy one day if you aren't already. Some wise words from someone very special to me, "YOU make your own happiness and YOU get to define it. There isn't a single definition for someone's happiness. It's what YOU make it." So if happiness to you is loving women and you're a woman, or loving a man and you're a man or being straight and boring (totally kidding, I love you straights), or loving both, that's your happiness and go with it. If happiness to you is dressing like a guy when you're a girl or vice versa, or changing your gender completely, do it. Don't try and use other people's definition of their happiness as your own if it isn't something that actually makes you happy. If you want to drink a martini at 12:00 in the middle of the day or go to church every Sunday and it makes you happy, do it. If you want to go to the club on the weekend or do things your passionate about, do it. You choose what makes you happy, not other people. Love yourself for who you are or who you want to be. You're the only you there is out there, be the best version of yourself. Live life out the way you want to even if it seems like everything is crumbling around you. Keep telling yourself every day that today will be a good day even if you don't believe it. Positive things outweigh the negatives. Get some time for yourself, pray, meditate, do whatever you'd like. Things WILL get better if they aren't already. So to sum up this long ass post, it's okay not to have everything figured out right now. Part of life is figuring it out as you go. Take things day by day because we're only promised this moment. Do what makes you happy even if other people may not like it. And if you ever need someone to talk to, I'm here even if I don't know you. Your spouses, friends, family, God, the universe, someone is going to be there to listen to what you have to say. You're not alone. We're all human and we all struggle and it's okay. Just remember we all bleed the same color. Doesn't matter who you are or what you believe or who you love, you're a human being that has valid feelings and YOU matter. Don't ever forget that. And to all you straights out there, I'm here for you too and I love you. This post can be to anyone. Love is love is love. Stay strong. wedding dresses for large bust